Boyfriend's birthday swiftly approaches. And a big number for him, too. Although I confess I've never put too terribly much energy into the number he now faces, it very clearly and obviously means quite a bit to him. As a result, I find myself searching for ways to make it extra memorable (in good ways). Alas, I feel inadequate as I plan, wanting to offer him the moon and a new house and a trip to Vegas while I'm at it. But being in the pickle I have put myself in, I'll have to content myself with small achievements in the direction of making his birthday a great one. Yet even so I am troubled.
Given that we both are attempting to eat a bit more healthy, should I make him a cake or no? Should I try to put together a surprise party? Give him alone time? Take him to the mountains? Go dancing? And what do I get for him as a gift? Should I make something?
Filled with uncertainty because I wish it to be wonderful, and worried I'll fall short, does not a winning recipe make. So perhaps I shall just breathe deeply, do what I can, and what feels right... and let him have the day he desires.
At least it's on a weekend.
About Me
- Curious Foxkitty
- I am many things to many people: a daughter, a sister, an aunt, a cousin, a niece, a friend, a BFF, a confidant. I am also an animal lover, a student, a chocoholic, a straightedge, a tea-drinking hybrid-driving Libertarian, a bookworm, a knitter and crafter, a seamstress, a literature graduate, a gamer girl, a gardener, a shamanstic hooligan who howls at the moon.
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